However, you don’t always have to head to the gay club scene, you could meet up with friends for coffee, or head to a local bar – you never know where you’ll meet someone new! Let’s just say that a club is the type of place you would try and find Mr. Yes, it’s all fun and games at the time, but eventually, you end up seeing the same faces and pulling the same people over and over again.Ī club also isn’t the best play to conduct gay chat with any potential dates because the establishments tend to be noisy, busy and usually everyone is a little wasted. Clubbing, especially on the gay scene, can become monotonous and tiring.